Matthew 5:27-32
“You have heard that it was said,
‘YOU SHALL NOT COMMIT ADULTERY’;
but I (Jesus) say to you
that everyone who looks at a woman with lust for her
has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
If your right eye makes you stumble,
tear it out and throw it from you;
for it is better for you to lose one of the parts of your body,
than for your whole body to be thrown into hell.
If your right hand makes you stumble,
cut it off and throw it from you;
for it is better for you to lose one of the parts of your body,
than for your whole body to go into hell.
It was said,
‘WHOEVER SENDS HIS WIFE AWAY,
LET HIM GIVE HER A CERTIFICATE OF DIVORCE’;
but I (Jesus) say to you that everyone who divorces his wife,
except for the reason of unchastity (adultery),
makes her commit adultery;
and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.”
{{ i know this is a touchy subject even four many in the church
now days,
Jesus came and gave of Himself that we may be
saved from our sins,
He was beaten and hung on the crosss
He gave up His sole to Father God
and three days later rose from the dead
so that we may be forgiven of our sins,
so there is hope, there can be redemption.
If in your heart you are truly repetitive,
you can be redeemed.
Stop playing church, Stop making excuses,
and obey the commandments of GOD.
Walk with the Lord GOD, on that narrow path
rather than the wide path of this world that leads to hell. }}
Aging Jesus takes an action of sin
and in clouding the thoughts we have.
If your right eye makes you stumble,
tear it out and throw it from you;
for it is better for you to lose one of the parts of your body,
than for your whole body to be thrown into hell.
If your right hand makes you stumble,
cut it off and throw it from you;
for it is better for you to lose one of the parts of your body,
than for your whole body to go into hell.
This seems harsh,
but that is how important it is to obey the commandments
of the LORD,
He is a just GOD.
This is why it is so important to examine our selves
as we talked about yesterday.
If you didn’t read yesterdays post go read it.
When we sin it is up to us to make it right.
If you have been divorced
and the relationship is beyond repair stay signal.
If you have been devoured and are remained
don't repeat your sin, go to GOD
repent ask to be forgiven and then stay married.
Matthew 19:9
"And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife,
except for immorality,
and marries another woman commits adultery.”
Mark 10:11
And He said to them,
“Whoever divorces his wife and marries another woman
commits adultery against her;
and if she herself divorces her husband
and marries another man,
she is committing adultery.”
Luke 16:18
“Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another
commits adultery,
and he who marries one who is divorced from a husband
commits adultery.”
Malachi 2:13-16
“This is another thing you do:
you cover the altar of the LORD with tears,
with weeping and with groaning,
because He no longer regards the offering or accepts it
with favor from your hand.
Yet you say,
‘For what reason?’
Because the LORD has been a witness
between you and the wife of your youth,
against whom you have dealt treacherously,
though she is your companion and your wife by covenant.
But not one has done so who has a remnant of the Spirit.
And what did that one do while he was seeking a godly offspring?
Take heed then to your spirit,
and let no one deal treacherously against the wife of your youth.
For I hate divorce, says the LORD,
the God of Israel, and him who covers his garment with wrong,”
says the LORD of hosts.
“So take heed to your spirit,
that you do not deal treacherously.”
Here is the instructions to have a great marriage;
Ephesians 5:14-30
“Awake, sleeper,
And arise from the dead,
And Christ will shine on you.”
Therefore be careful how you walk,
not as unwise men but as wise,
making the most of your time,
because the days are evil.
So then do not be foolish,
but understand what the will of the Lord is.
And do not get drunk with wine,
for that is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit,
speaking to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs,
singing and making melody with your heart to the Lord;
always giving thanks for all things
in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ to God, even the Father;
and be subject to one another in the fear of Christ.
Wives,
be subject to your own husbands,
as to the Lord.
For the husband is the head of the wife,
as Christ also is the head of the church,
He Himself being the Savior of the body.
But as the church is subject to Christ,
so also the wives ought to be to their husbands in everything.
Husbands,
love your wives,
just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her,
so that He might sanctify her,
having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word,
that He might present to Himself the church in all her glory,
having no spot or wrinkle or any such thing;
but that she would be holy and blameless.
So husbands ought also to love their own wives
as their own bodies.
He who loves his own wife loves himself;
for no one ever hated his own flesh,
but nourishes and cherishes it,
just as Christ also does the church,
because we are members of His body.
{Rather simple:}
Wives to be subject to;
is to be dependent on,
Does not mean the husband has the wife by the neck,
demanding his whims upon her.
Husbands actually have the header roll to live out.
He is to treat his wife as Christ has treated the church
(His bride, wife as it would be)
and what did Jesus do for His bride?????
O that’s right He gave His life for the Church
(His bride, His wife)
Wives if you are subject to your own husband,
And if husbands would love their own wives as their own bodies.
The chases of one committing adultery are slim.
Wives are to honer, respect and nourish each their own husband.
Husbands are to love their own wife by being dedicated to Her
To take care of all Her needs.
Treating Her better than he treats himself. Or any one ells.
Mutual respect goes a long way.
Putting the other before self.
Steps for a well, spiritual family:
Colossians 3:18-21
“Wives,
be subject to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.
Husbands,
love your wives and do not be embittered against them.
Children,
be obedient to your parents in all things,
for this is well-pleasing to the Lord.
Fathers,
do not exasperate your children,
so that they will not lose heart.”
Exodus 20:12
“Honor your father and your mother,
that your days may be prolonged in the land which the LORD your God gives you.
Ephesians 6:1-4
Children,
obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.
HONOR YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER
(which is the first commandment with a promise),
SO THAT IT MAY BE WELL WITH YOU,
AND THAT YOU MAY LIVE LONG ON THE EARTH.
Fathers,
do not provoke your children to anger,
but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.
If the wife, husband and children
all do there part as is commanded
for those who call Christ Jesus their LORD
A husband nor his wife would be caught up in adultery.
And the children would won’t be unruly and disobedient
towards their parents nor to the LORD their GOD.
Problem seems to be that husband, wife nor the children
are no dedication to family
nor any dedication to obey the commandments Of the LORD.
So all drift away from morals,
from the will and direction of GOD.
But would rather make excuses, set blame on others,
And try to justify their own sins.
Turning their backs on each other and the commandments of GOD
choosing to live in a lie,
on the broad path leading to distribution.
Matthew 7:13-14
“Enter through the narrow gate;
for the gate is wide and the way is broad
that leads to destruction,
and there are many who enter through it.
For the gate is small
and the way is narrow that leads to life,
and there are few who find it.”
Matthew 7:12
“In everything, therefore,
treat people the same way you want them to treat you,”
Wives treat your own husband the way you would like to be treated.
Husbands treat you own wife the way you would like to be treated.
Children obey your parents.
When do you stop being a Wife?
When do you stop being a husband?
When do you stop being a child of your parents?
Answer:
Never Once married you are marred.
When a man and a woman become one,
They are always one.
Once you are born they are always their parents child.
The thing to do::
If you have sinned in any of these Repent,
go to the LORD and repent.
Ask to be forgiven and turn to what is right in the sight of GOD.
Be redeemed, be saved.
Now go love the Lord your GOD and your family.
There is so much more that is said about marriage in the Bible
But will leave you with this:
Husbands and wives come together,
cling to each other, forgive each other, pray for each other,
take time to read the word of GOD with each other.
Take time to do also with your children.
For GOD does not like divorces, nor rebellious children.